Make your lover lie on his or her back, legs apart and a cushion under the hips to raise up the Lingam area and a cushion under the head so he can look at their genitals. Now banish all thoughts of kneading your lover all over until he begs for mercy. If you want to have a go with him indoors here is a pretty basic guide to Tantric massage.įirstly, from this point on, your manhood is referred to as Lingam (wand of light – don’t be thinking light sabre it’s not that big!).Ĭhoose some gentle music (whale music is optional). You are far more likely to find it on offer in the many massage parlors in London and other major cities. For this reason you will not find it offered down your local health center. The massage itself does tend to cause orgasms, but these are described as a bonus rather than the aim.Īlthough Tantric massage does not involve actual penetrative sex, it does involve full on touching of the organs. The Hindus describe Tantra as achieving personal growth through pleasurable existence.
However it was created from the belief that if you are sexually happy and relaxed then your health will benefit. Tantric massage is basically just a massage.
Had anyone asked me what it was exactly I would have giggled shyly and muttered something about gentle touching, feathers, massage and no orgasm. I guess the majority of us have heard about Tantric sex and massage.
